Overview of Divorce

There are several considerations to take into account when getting divorced in Singapore. The first is which court has jurisdiction over the matter. Can it be initiated before Singapore courts?

Singapore courts have jurisdiction over divorce proceedings when:

1. Either of the parties to the marriage is domiciled in Singapore at the time the divorce proceedings commence; or
2. Either of the parties to the marriage is a habitual resident in Singapore for at least three years prior to the commencement of the divorce proceedings.

Also, the parties must have been married to each other for at least three years. The court rarely deviates from this requirement, even if it has the discretion to do so. The court may, however, decide to deviate from such requirement in cases of unusually cruel behaviour or unbearable hardship.

A divorce differs greatly from an annulment. While an existing marriage is considered to be dissolved in a divorce, the marriage technically did not take place in the event of an annulment.

To get an annulment, parties do not need to be married for a minimum of three years. It is typically granted earlier in the marriage rather than later, though is only granted by the court under certain circumstances.

It is important to note that the requirements stated above do not apply to persons married under Muslim Law.

During a divorce, parties go through two phases:

When a party in a marriage wishes to get a divorce, he or she must identify the grounds for divorce. Singapore law states that the only valid reason for ceasing the marriage is its irretrievable breakdown. The parties must prove the existence of one of the reasons listed below:

1. Adultery: If one of the spouses committed adultery, the plaintiff may claim that their life together is no longer purposeful, and that the plaintiff finds living with the defendant to be intolerable. A plaintiff may opt to hire an investigator to collect relevant evidence needed to justify such adulterous acts in court.
2. Unreasonable behaviour: Another legal ground for divorce is if the plaintiff finds the defendant's behaviour to be unreasonable, thus making it unbearable for the plaintiff to keep living under one roof with the defendant.
3. Desertion: If the defendant abandoned the plaintiff without showing an intention to return, the plaintiff may use such reasoning to file for divorce. To do so, the defendant must be absent for at least two years.
4. Separation: Two parties that agreed to live separately for three years may seek a divorce. If such agreement is not made, a plaintiff may file for divorce after four years of living apart.

Proof of the above-mentioned situations is a question of fact to be established in court and in trial should the other party challenge it. Note that a trial is a drawn out and stressful process, as the court must make a judgement after hearing witnesses and scrutinising the evidence provided. A trial may be avoided if both parties are in agreement that any of the above reasons have resulted in an irretrievable breakdown of the marriage.

If the court finds that the marriage is irretrievably broken down regardless of whether the parties agreed to it or have proven it in trial, the court will grant an interim judgment that will dissolve the marriage. After that, the divorce moves on to the second phase.

Under Singapore law, the court does not usually consider the reasons behind the marriage's breakdown when deciding on the ancillary matters. There may be little to no advantage to be gained by either party upon proving that the other party has been “wrong” or “immoral.” Your lawyer should be able to advise you when the breakdown of the marriage may affect the ancillary matters that will be considered in the second phase.

There are three issues concerning ancillary matters:

1. Care, control and custody of children (which includes access to the children);
2. Maintenance of spouse and/or the children; and
3. Division of marital assets.

When it comes to the children, the three main issues to be resolved are:

1. Custody: Custody refers to the making of major decisions in the lives of the children. These decisions include those pertaining to the child's education, religion, relocation, migration, and other significant matters. If parents cannot agree on custody of the children, then the court typically awards both parents with joint custody.
2. Care and Control: Another issue to be resolved is who is to act as the child's main caregiver, and with whom the child will live after the divorce.
3. Access: If a parent is not awarded with care and control, he or she is instead awarded access to the child. This may come in several forms, such as liberal access, supervised access, and reasonable access.

Generally, during and after the marriage, a husband is obliged to support his wife and children up to the age of 21. Maintenance for children of the marriage is required. In certain circumstances, however, maintenance for a former wife may not be required, such as in the event of short marriages or in a scenario where the wife is earning well.

During the divorce process, parties may opt to agree on the amount of maintenance to be provided to the wife and children. Otherwise, the court will decide on the amount of maintenance to be paid after considering all factors and evidence provided by parties. These factors include their income, the standard of living of both parties, the length of the marriage, etc.

Marital assets defined by law (which may not include a marital home acquired in an inheritance) are to be divided between the two parties. Direct or monetary contributions to the acquisition of that asset, as well as their indirect contributions, are taken into account. These include:

1. Each party’s extent of contributions in monetary terms, work, or property towards obtaining, maintaining, or improving the marital assets;
2. Whether there is any debt owed by either party or incurred obligation for their joint interest or for the interest of any child of the marriage;
3. Whether the children of the marriage have any needs;
4. Each party's extent of contributions to the family's welfare. This includes taking care of the family or any infirm or aged relative or dependant of either party, as well as looking after the home;
5. Whether the parties have agreed on the ownership and division of the marital assets upon divorce;
6. Whether either party enjoyed rent-free occupation in the marital home or similar benefits for a certain time period to the other party's exclusion;
7. Whether one party provided material or non-material support or assistance to the other, which includes the providing of support or assistance to help the other party's carrying on in his or her business or occupation.

Each of the parties must gather relevant evidence of their contributions, such as invoices, bank statements, and contracts in order to establish the above-mentioned factors in court.

An uncontested divorce, sometimes referred to as a simplified divorce, refers to a scenario in which both parties agree to the reason for the divorce. Here, they also agree to all ancillary issues.

Usually, divorces are uncontested because parties want to avoid expensive and drawn-out trials. Moreover, no advantage is to be gained by proving that the other party is “wrong” during the dissolution of marriage. If two parties get along, they will often try to smooth out the relationship for the sake of their children.

Singapore courts usually discourage divorce litigation. Sometimes, when parties are still in the early stages of a divorce proceeding, the court will encourage them to attend mediation instead. With a mediator present, two parties may potentially get to the point of resolving the marriage on an uncontested basis.

While you may opt to file for a divorce without hiring a lawyer to save on costs, you must realise that you will still be subject to court proceedings, procedures, technicalities, and formalities. In the eyes of the court, it does not matter whether you have a legal representative or if you opt to represent yourself. Either way, the Family Justice Court will not provide the involved parties with any legal advice on the divorce process.

To commence a divorce proceeding, you  must provide specific documentation including:

• Writ of Summons;
• Statement of Particulars;
• Statement of Claim;
• Proposed Parenting Plan;
• Proposed Property Plan;
• Acknowledgment of Service; and
• Memorandum of Service.

You may need to file additional documents should matters stay contested, including the Affidavit of Assets and Means and Submissions for the court.

It is strongly advised that you seek help from a divorce lawyer, particularly if it is evident that your spouse is going to contest the divorce.